
Like the love fern in How To Lose A Guy In Ten Days, they need regular TLC. You can’t just leave them to fend for themselves. We have to continuously nourish them, honour their importance and give them the energy they deserve.
Work gets in the way, life happens.
We’re all guilty of letting the weeks pass us by without seeing our friends or scheduling in some quality time. Work gets in the way, life happens and before you know it, it’s been six months without the whiff of a glass of vino and a much-needed chinwag.
There’s bound to be periods in your life when you don’t have the time to fart let alone hang out with the girls but looking after those connections and having fulfilling conversations makes us feel seen, understood and appreciated.
And on that note, we’re dedicating this post to bettering our friendship skills. Here’s to being a bloody good pal and getting that well overdue catch up in the diary ASAP.

Don’t flake on plans
Double booked? That’s cool on the first occasion but cancel a fifth time and you’ll forever be known as that flaky friend.
Make plans, be reliable and show up
Make plans, be reliable and show up for others – physically and mentally.
Check-in on them
You don’t have to be geographically close to be emotionally present – a random text asking if they’re having a good week will let them know that regardless of how stacked you are in your own life, they’re still a priority.
Be a great listener
Listening is a h-a-r-d skill to master. If you can actively hear someone out without needing to chime in with your own stories, that’s when you’re really lending an ear. Basically, be a sounding board and know when to shut up every now and again.
Have fun and make new memories
Come through with them Oprah quotes whenever they’re needed but make space for the good times in your friendship too. Laughter lines are a sign of true friendship.
Champion their milestones
Celebrate their wins with them and make a fuss when life is going their way!
Even the smallest gesture can send a clear message that their happiness and success is important to you.
Whether it’s a promotion, a new baby or finally having the confidence to kick that f*ck boy to the curb, even the smallest gesture can send a clear message that their happiness and success is important to you. When they’re winning, you’re winning.
Practise the art of empathy
We all move through life stages at a different pace and while you might not always be on the same page or able to relate to their circumstances, you can certainly try to walk in their shoes for a minute.
Whether they’re single and you’re married or they’re trying to find their feet with motherhood while you’re nowhere near ready for babies, you can still find ways to understand their reality.


Accept that life just gets in the way sometimes
It’s not you and it’s not them – life runs away with all of us sometimes but as long as you’re both aware that it’s a just a phase and that you can pick things back up when things are a little less crazy, that’s all you need to know.
Know when you’re in the wrong
Having the humility to swallow your pride and admit you messed up makes you a top friend. You live and you learn!
Be loyal and trustworthy
With any interpersonal relationship, trust is a real deal-breaker. They need to know that they can confide in you with total confidence. You have their back and then some.

Speak from the heart
Honesty is one of the most significant friendship traits.
Everyone needs a straight-talking chum on speed dial.
Respect their boundaries but never be afraid to offer up some moral guidance if ever they lose perspective.
Accept them for who they are
A good friend is someone who encourages you to be your true authentic self without fear of judgement. They’ll love you despite your shortcomings, weaknesses and wrong moves.

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This is such a great post, thanks for sharing! However, as I adore the style of your blog posts, would you consider getting more into detail regarding “Accept them for who they are”, as I currently have doubts about a friendship. We have known each other for 20 years now, but in the few past years, she changed rather “to the worse” and didn’t even buy me something for Christmas and was just like “oh, thank you.. have I told you I have bought a dyson lately? I’m lovin it!”. It’s definitely not about the monetary aspect, but not buying… Read more »
I completely understand what you mean! Something similar happened with one of my friends and I found that honesty in how you’re feeling about the current situations will be best! Having a heart to heart and really just letting them know what’s going on in your head is great because then you got your feelings out and hopefully they listen and make adjustments for how they act in the future! But keep in mind that something that is frivolous in your mind might be a necessary thing for someone else (depending on the splurge obvs) but keeping it all in… Read more »
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Aww what a cute post 🙂
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Loooove the photos!! and great words in the name of a good friendship 😉